DATING IS NOT EASY ! yes ladies that's exactly how I feel at this point and I almost feel that maybe its not even for me. I hate it and most of all I hate the wolf's disguised in sheep clothing......... If its not one thing its another and frankly am so over it. After the last guys I meet I dont think my Heart can handle anymore let downs. Oh Johnny you gave me a run for my money I must admit his game and bullshit sweetness was good and me being a fool and trying to allow myself to take a risk once again got let down. Talking to a few of my girlfriends am not at all surprised to see that am not the only one with MEN problems as am sure 1000 other women have the same dilemma. All i have to says is if you have someone your with and blessed enough to find love then I encourage you to be thankful for that person sometimes I feel as if Iam meant to be alone. Me as a women Iam complete I love myself and have lots going for me having a man is not needed To complete me,am already complete as the strong independent women I am but it would be nice to have someone to share life with lets just keep it real loneliness SUCKS ! So I am @ the point i was a year ago with dating giving it a big thumbs down for now anyways
xoxooxo
Sincerely,
Tired of Love games
dont worry girl! He will come when its time, dont settle because your future hubby is out there. He will come when u least expect it. Stop looking and that is when you will find him
ReplyDelete@Jayla thanks Chica I keep telling myself the same thing ................. still waiting patiently
ReplyDeleteOh my goosh I don't know if you watch Wendy Williams or not but she has this saying "I feel like he/she is my friend in my head!" And that's totally how i feel about you!!! YOU ARE DEF. MY FRIEND IN MY HEAD!!! You know you said something in your post that really resonated with me "Me as a women Iam complete I love myself and have lots going for me having a man is not needed To complete me,am already complete as the strong independent women I am but it would be nice to have someone to share life with lets just keep it real loneliness SUCKS !" I too am a strong independent woman & I LOVE THAT ABOUT MYSELF... but often times I wonder if it these qualities that we have within ourselves that men find unappealing. I mean I know men are always saying I want an independent woman BUT do they really? I've had my male cousins tell me that the reason why I don't have a man is because perhaps the men that are interested in me feel LIKE THEY HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER ME. They are INTIMIDATED by me (perhaps by us). I just feel that its COMPLETE and TOTAL BULLSHIT... isn't that the whole point of being A MAN...STEPPING UP SHOWING INITIATIVE SHOWING THE WOMAN THAT YOU'RE INTERESTED IN ALL YOU HAVE TO OFFER EVEN IF IT ISN'T MONEY OR MATERIALISTIC THINGS. SO LIKE YOU... I'm SOOO OVER IT and HAVE BEEN WAY OVER IT... LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR OTTD's... STAY STRONG AND INDEPENDENT :) LUV YAH!!!
ReplyDeleteThey who wait on God to send them the man that was created for them will live a happy life with the one they love. So I am telling you just wait on the Lord to send him to you.
ReplyDeleteDo not expect too much from dating for now. Just focus on having fun and just learning in each experience. You will meet a lot of good guys and bad guys out there and soon you will meet THE ONE. It will be hard to tell which one will that be of course, but at least you had fun in the process!
ReplyDeleteYeah right! Dating is not that easy all you need to do right now is to enjoy life and appreciate each blessings God had given unto you. The right man will really come if it's already time. I'm sure He will give you a man worth loving.
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