My Opinion on the Whole"" Fat Hatting"" Marie Claire Blogger

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http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/dating-blog/overweight-couples-on-television?ur_login_failed=invalid%20email.

Thanks to face book I was aware of this article And many blogger's have spoken up about it but I feel I want to share my part too. Being am A ""FATTIEE"" A happy one too I think this Article is sad and just goes to show how much ignorance there is in this world and what disregard there is for another Human s Key WORD HERE HUMAN  the same blood runs through my Veins as it does the next  person. Am i personally offended  by this not the least why ??? Because once you get Immune to the worlds opinions of how they view the larger population . It doesn't Bother you anymore I hurt for this person because  this person struggles themselves from a eating disorder ( Not Making it right for them too be so rude and hurtful) But they have self esteem issue and probably are not a real happy person. . Which mean their projection of there self worth shows on there insensitive  writing!  Deep down this person lacks something This Fattie has ((love)) and complete surrender to ones self.  it does piss me off that with all the social bullying that they would have let this be published   it happens with the teens who were outed for being gay. Who is to say that someone reading this magazine who is struggle with weight issues wont make them feel any better maybe in some attempt to commit suicide all because of some ones  words I know when i was a kid man  words hurt me more than anything. And even as a adult they hurt me but I have a balance with what I choose to receive. This was because the work I did in Therapy and the behavior modification i did in my own life too better myself as a person . But then again not every body is were am at as a person and that is what sadness me the most . If you are reading this blog and have problems with your weight and struggle from low self esteem i leave you with this little saying that I live by and has helped me  when dealing with people !

DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY.
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality,  When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.      So  when I hear IGNORANT SHIT like this I let it bounce off of me because you don't have too own that reality if you don't want to  i don't receive that crap that was written . DONT RECEIVE IT ETHER  ITS ALWAYS GOOD TO EXPRESS FEELING BUT AFTER THAT LET IT GO DONT HOLD ON TOO THE IGNORANCE OF THE WORLD BECAUSE IT WILL DESTROY YOUR SOUL IF YOU LET IT